Friday, April 4, 2008

Adults Misunderstand and kids fight it out :-)

haha!!!! the thought - 'u are mean'..'u hurt my feelings'.. 'I hate u'.. 'I never wanna play with u again'.. 'Ana is my best friend from today.. not you'.. thats how a child reacts when cornered with hurt feelings.. they bear the load of grudge, revenge, jealousy, etc.. well they are innocent.. and they fight it out.. and after a while its out of their system... tomorrow you might see them playing together again..
Now adults deal with it differently.. some talk it out.. clear the misunderstanding.. some bear the grudge and stop communicating absolutely.. might take revenge later..some just dont take it on to themselves to do anything.. might just ignore it.. and some stress themselves out.. wow!!! what a difference.. what changes during the intervention from childhood to adulthood is interesting..

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