Monday, April 7, 2008

Life is too short - cherish it while u still can

Life is too short to muse about what we dont have..
Life is too short to look back again and again and waste precious moments that is 'now'..
Life is too short to contemplate revenge..
Life is too short to not count your Blessings..
Life is too short to complain, complain and complain..
Life is too short - you will be history before anyone realizes or appreciates the real you..
Life is too short - if not for anyone else live it for yourself..
Life is too short to loose family and good friends..
Life is too short - noones perfect.. quit being idealistic..
Life is too short - to err is human.. get over it and move on..
Been there.. seen that..
no matter how a person is.. u will always miss him/her for all the good moments that you shared..

Friday, April 4, 2008

Adults Misunderstand and kids fight it out :-)

haha!!!! the thought - 'u are mean'..'u hurt my feelings'.. 'I hate u'.. 'I never wanna play with u again'.. 'Ana is my best friend from today.. not you'.. thats how a child reacts when cornered with hurt feelings.. they bear the load of grudge, revenge, jealousy, etc.. well they are innocent.. and they fight it out.. and after a while its out of their system... tomorrow you might see them playing together again..
Now adults deal with it differently.. some talk it out.. clear the misunderstanding.. some bear the grudge and stop communicating absolutely.. might take revenge later..some just dont take it on to themselves to do anything.. might just ignore it.. and some stress themselves out.. wow!!! what a difference.. what changes during the intervention from childhood to adulthood is interesting..

Relations and Marriage

Yup!!!!! analyzed some and have researched it enough thru mental processes and experiences to form a conclusion that even though it might not be obvious to the outside world.. there exists an 'equation', a 'balancing factor' in every relation, every lasting marriage.. so as an outsider commenting about the bond itself would be really foolish.. all thru the day going thru different pulses and sometimes radiant thoughts and frustrations and hit and misses - it might appear alls lost.. but everything is in the mind.. its all a mind game.. its easy to put 2 and 2 and form an opinion... but its only an opinion.. not the actual fact.. so sometimes its good to keep your opinion to yourself..