The transformation

I thank my stars for allowing me to think from time to time about significant observations life has to offer. One such observation being a Woman's path from being adorned as a jewel in a crown of her man(the early fresh years) to licking the dust off his feet(the later yrs). Where doth Thou love go eventually for Thee - who knows? again coming back to the same issue of love. Is it for real? its real as long as she doesnt belong to him.. once she does, it conviniently acquires a backbench..

things surely have changed and women have made their way to the top in every sense of achievement.. but come what may, every sacrifice in a family situation is mostly expected of her. Why I am adamant about this fact? I see it everywhere.. so widespread.. many among my friends would have wanted to be a person in their own rights, with their individuality, but it got mushed in a family circle... starting from acquiring his family's name to living well within the perimeters of his family rules..

I envision a free thinking, free-spirited woman in her childhood to teenage yrs to her first few instances into adulthood.. very sweet and desirous and then slowly the tables are turned against her.. gradually the free part of her free willing life disappears into the oblivion.. gradually.. see.. I can even see its retreating footsteps, being buried beneath the sands of time..

spread your wings while u got them woman
fly to places they cant catch you
stay free stay happy and cheerful
stay charming and charismatic
make a world of your own where you rule..
and claim from this world what you deserve
spread the joy