Life is too short - cherish it while u still can

Life is too short to muse about what we dont have..
Life is too short to look back again and again and waste precious moments that is 'now'..
Life is too short to contemplate revenge..
Life is too short to not count your Blessings..
Life is too short to complain, complain and complain..
Life is too short - you will be history before anyone realizes or appreciates the real you..
Life is too short - if not for anyone else live it for yourself..
Life is too short to loose family and good friends..
Life is too short - noones perfect.. quit being idealistic..
Life is too short - to err is human.. get over it and move on..
Been there.. seen that..
no matter how a person is.. u will always miss him/her for all the good moments that you shared..

Adults Misunderstand and kids fight it out :-)

haha!!!! the thought - 'u are mean'..'u hurt my feelings'.. 'I hate u'.. 'I never wanna play with u again'.. 'Ana is my best friend from today.. not you'.. thats how a child reacts when cornered with hurt feelings.. they bear the load of grudge, revenge, jealousy, etc.. well they are innocent.. and they fight it out.. and after a while its out of their system... tomorrow you might see them playing together again..
Now adults deal with it differently.. some talk it out.. clear the misunderstanding.. some bear the grudge and stop communicating absolutely.. might take revenge later..some just dont take it on to themselves to do anything.. might just ignore it.. and some stress themselves out.. wow!!! what a difference.. what changes during the intervention from childhood to adulthood is interesting..

Relations and Marriage

Yup!!!!! analyzed some and have researched it enough thru mental processes and experiences to form a conclusion that even though it might not be obvious to the outside world.. there exists an 'equation', a 'balancing factor' in every relation, every lasting marriage.. so as an outsider commenting about the bond itself would be really foolish.. all thru the day going thru different pulses and sometimes radiant thoughts and frustrations and hit and misses - it might appear alls lost.. but everything is in the mind.. its all a mind game.. its easy to put 2 and 2 and form an opinion... but its only an opinion.. not the actual fact.. so sometimes its good to keep your opinion to yourself..

Surprise!!!!! Surprise!!!!

Whats with women and surprises? The bubble of excitement within waiting to pop out.. the element that adds humor and twist to anyones day... surprise at seeing someone after a long time.. the surprise of giving a gift to a loved one bought /purchased without his/her knowledge... goes with the flow ven it is done in good taste in line with a persons expectations... what if he/she doesnt like it..

nontheless surprise is a taking unaware... wallow in it whoever it comes from.. definitely not from a stranger I hope :).. that will be so weird

Gloomy Cloudy oh!!! So Rainy Day

Pitter patter rain drops..
all day long..
ya!! ya!! we need rain..
but for the whole day..
cant bear the sky weeping so much..
it somehow relates to how you start feeling within... sad.. gloomy.. just plain bogged down.. just 'cos the Heavens cant stop crying...
accumulation of people's sin filtering down to the earth in the form of water droplets... makes u agitated and restless.. o!!!! stop please stop.. we had enough for one day for crying out loud..
what will it bring the next day.. maybe a green sapling.. maybe a fresh breath of air.. something new and unusual.. new hopes .. new aspirations... new desires..

yet to see that..

Site seeing - Rajasthan, India

Long long time ago.. when I was a kid :)... my Dad took us to several tours... one of them being Rajasthan.. am being constantly reminded of those golden moments of the feel of the sand, wind and dry parched Rajasthan climate... it was during the month of october... what amazed me most was the sand dunes.. the shifting sand creating 'patterns in motion' on the face of earth.. what amazing beauty, and how gracefully the camels make it seem so easy to walk in sand and vast stretches of it.. where the eye leads you ... 'all you see, is a sea of sand'.. sure.. why not.. I dont live there... what if I had to live there? in the sandy Thar desert of Rajasthan... got nostalgic about those moments since our conversation @ lunch with colleagues.. The beautiful city of Udaipur, Jodhpur, Jaipur.... right in the middle of the Rajasthani people steeped in poverty is the utmost luxurious 'palace on wheels' a paradise offered for foreigners... the stark blend of poverty with filthy rich... food for thought...

Writing

My God!!!! what nonsense I write.. have been asking my friends to read it and send their feedbacks on this ???? gosh!!! looks like i have lost it :).. used to write long long time ago.. waking up early in the morning.. freshness of dawn just filtered pure thoughts in to my mind... and then the pen wud just follow the thoughts...