Revisiting Love and Relationship

I am baised regarding this issue since my practicality overshadows the emotions attached to love sometimes(NOT ALWAYS mind you).. love(in terms of adult relations) is basically an attraction for the opposite sex... in this world of widespread technology and scientific researches - is it safe to deduce that love is a sort of chemical imbalance brought about by letting loose your passionate desires??? hmmm!!!
well!!!! I dont believe in love at first site... maybe thats why this is how I feel.. you got to know a person in order to fall for him/her.. or maybe with age and life's experiences my deductions are a little skewed :).. ask this from a teenager or a young adult and he/she will have a completely different opinion... people in love say - 'just let go, let it take its course'.. but how can one do that? when you have a brain to think straight you cant let go... you cannot be mindless.. but thats exactly what love will proabably make you do.. anyways.. I seem to be talking in circles.. no wonder.. I am clueless.. ;)

Has been a while :)

I have been itching to write.. but cant decide what topic to discuss... anyways going thru a cycle... happy sad happy sad happy... has been like this for a while now.. somedays are awesome.. feeling happy for what I have and somedays its a drag.. cant wait for the day to get over... theres always a spark for a change thats welcome.. and then it goes off in a few seconds.. what is life? how should one feel going about it? whats our basic purpose here? why is it that there are people who struggle all their life, personally, professionally and there are some who dont have a whiff of sorrow .. some have it easy and for some its a bed of thorns... the Hindu religion believes in rebirth and how your past life/lives can affect your present.. being an educated person - is it worth believing .. how can we know for sure the absolute truth... who is God? I pray.. probably you do to... I pray for strength for health and for my family and friends.. but Who is listening? its only when I see a support, an indication from Him in certain act through Human or maybe even nature that my belief doubles.. there is a SuperPower.. He/She is all encompassing.. His is the final verdict.. so live life with humility, live life sincerely, love - live and let live..

Life is too short - cherish it while u still can

Life is too short to muse about what we dont have..
Life is too short to look back again and again and waste precious moments that is 'now'..
Life is too short to contemplate revenge..
Life is too short to not count your Blessings..
Life is too short to complain, complain and complain..
Life is too short - you will be history before anyone realizes or appreciates the real you..
Life is too short - if not for anyone else live it for yourself..
Life is too short to loose family and good friends..
Life is too short - noones perfect.. quit being idealistic..
Life is too short - to err is human.. get over it and move on..
Been there.. seen that..
no matter how a person is.. u will always miss him/her for all the good moments that you shared..

Adults Misunderstand and kids fight it out :-)

haha!!!! the thought - 'u are mean'..'u hurt my feelings'.. 'I hate u'.. 'I never wanna play with u again'.. 'Ana is my best friend from today.. not you'.. thats how a child reacts when cornered with hurt feelings.. they bear the load of grudge, revenge, jealousy, etc.. well they are innocent.. and they fight it out.. and after a while its out of their system... tomorrow you might see them playing together again..
Now adults deal with it differently.. some talk it out.. clear the misunderstanding.. some bear the grudge and stop communicating absolutely.. might take revenge later..some just dont take it on to themselves to do anything.. might just ignore it.. and some stress themselves out.. wow!!! what a difference.. what changes during the intervention from childhood to adulthood is interesting..

Relations and Marriage

Yup!!!!! analyzed some and have researched it enough thru mental processes and experiences to form a conclusion that even though it might not be obvious to the outside world.. there exists an 'equation', a 'balancing factor' in every relation, every lasting marriage.. so as an outsider commenting about the bond itself would be really foolish.. all thru the day going thru different pulses and sometimes radiant thoughts and frustrations and hit and misses - it might appear alls lost.. but everything is in the mind.. its all a mind game.. its easy to put 2 and 2 and form an opinion... but its only an opinion.. not the actual fact.. so sometimes its good to keep your opinion to yourself..

Surprise!!!!! Surprise!!!!

Whats with women and surprises? The bubble of excitement within waiting to pop out.. the element that adds humor and twist to anyones day... surprise at seeing someone after a long time.. the surprise of giving a gift to a loved one bought /purchased without his/her knowledge... goes with the flow ven it is done in good taste in line with a persons expectations... what if he/she doesnt like it..

nontheless surprise is a taking unaware... wallow in it whoever it comes from.. definitely not from a stranger I hope :).. that will be so weird

Gloomy Cloudy oh!!! So Rainy Day

Pitter patter rain drops..
all day long..
ya!! ya!! we need rain..
but for the whole day..
cant bear the sky weeping so much..
it somehow relates to how you start feeling within... sad.. gloomy.. just plain bogged down.. just 'cos the Heavens cant stop crying...
accumulation of people's sin filtering down to the earth in the form of water droplets... makes u agitated and restless.. o!!!! stop please stop.. we had enough for one day for crying out loud..
what will it bring the next day.. maybe a green sapling.. maybe a fresh breath of air.. something new and unusual.. new hopes .. new aspirations... new desires..

yet to see that..