Husband Material

Saw this bumper sticker the other day and smiled knowingly - 'Husband and Dog missing.. reward for the dog'.. well no offence.. but coming from where I am its just your destiny who you end up with... its not a list of how he should be but his characteristic definitely encompasses some basic requirements.. and those are very unique to each persons taste.. mostly all ladies will agree with me ven I say - we want our husbands to be - understanding,loving,caring and broad minded.. rest are icing to the cake..

Faith in myself

Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it.
Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it.
Hatred darkens life; love illuminates it.

-Martin Luther King Jr.

Being precarious is always helpful.. but sometimes it just blocks a free spirit.. u must have faith in yourself to circumvent impediments... humility and trust to mark your way... as u tread thru unknown and sometimes unpleasant territories...

New Baby :-)

Felt terribly wonderful to see a newborn after ages.. revisited the hospital hallways to pay a visit to a new life(bundle of joy).. life brings with it new hopes and potentials for greatness.. charming and cheery indeed.. it also brings added responsibilities for the new parent particularly for the first time parents.. I am nostalgic of my days of glory and fame as a first time parent .. spending anxious days in and around the nursery just to catch a glimpse of the twinkle of my eyes.. she came 4 weeks before the due date and had to spend 10 days in the nursery.. her small and fragile little body lacking baby fat bore the pains of jaundice giving me sleepless nites.. cant forget the first time I held her.. my flesh and blood :)).. the joy, the happiness of becoming a mother.. o!!!! how beautiful that feeling is.. lookwise she resembled her Dad right from the start.. but she has my hair, straight and dark and maybe the smile :) and its tough to believe that someday she will be on her own..

Revisiting Love and Relationship

I am baised regarding this issue since my practicality overshadows the emotions attached to love sometimes(NOT ALWAYS mind you).. love(in terms of adult relations) is basically an attraction for the opposite sex... in this world of widespread technology and scientific researches - is it safe to deduce that love is a sort of chemical imbalance brought about by letting loose your passionate desires??? hmmm!!!
well!!!! I dont believe in love at first site... maybe thats why this is how I feel.. you got to know a person in order to fall for him/her.. or maybe with age and life's experiences my deductions are a little skewed :).. ask this from a teenager or a young adult and he/she will have a completely different opinion... people in love say - 'just let go, let it take its course'.. but how can one do that? when you have a brain to think straight you cant let go... you cannot be mindless.. but thats exactly what love will proabably make you do.. anyways.. I seem to be talking in circles.. no wonder.. I am clueless.. ;)

Has been a while :)

I have been itching to write.. but cant decide what topic to discuss... anyways going thru a cycle... happy sad happy sad happy... has been like this for a while now.. somedays are awesome.. feeling happy for what I have and somedays its a drag.. cant wait for the day to get over... theres always a spark for a change thats welcome.. and then it goes off in a few seconds.. what is life? how should one feel going about it? whats our basic purpose here? why is it that there are people who struggle all their life, personally, professionally and there are some who dont have a whiff of sorrow .. some have it easy and for some its a bed of thorns... the Hindu religion believes in rebirth and how your past life/lives can affect your present.. being an educated person - is it worth believing .. how can we know for sure the absolute truth... who is God? I pray.. probably you do to... I pray for strength for health and for my family and friends.. but Who is listening? its only when I see a support, an indication from Him in certain act through Human or maybe even nature that my belief doubles.. there is a SuperPower.. He/She is all encompassing.. His is the final verdict.. so live life with humility, live life sincerely, love - live and let live..